Coperto, courses, water, wine, and the 47 ways to accidentally offend your waiter.
Plan your Italy trip →Reservations: Essential for popular restaurants on weekends. Walk-ins work for trattorias on weekdays. Call or book on TheFork (Italy's main restaurant booking app).
Seating: Wait to be seated. Don't choose your own table unless it's clearly casual (pizzeria, trattoria with empty tables and no host). "Siamo in due" (there are two of us) is the standard opening.
The structure: Antipasto (starter) → Primo (pasta/risotto/soup) → Secondo (meat/fish) + Contorno (vegetables, ordered separately) → Dolce (dessert) → Caffè. You don't have to order every course — one primo + one secondo, or even just a primo, is perfectly acceptable. Ordering only a secondo without a primo is also fine.
Water: "Liscia o frizzante?" (still or sparkling?). Tap water exists but isn't standard — restaurants serve bottled. €2-3 per bottle. Asking for tap water ("acqua del rubinetto") is increasingly accepted but still feels cheap at nicer restaurants.
Wine: "Vino della casa" (house wine) is always local, always drinkable, always the best value. €5-10 per half-liter carafe. Asking for house wine is NOT déclassé — it's what locals order.
Coperto: A per-person cover charge (€1-3) added to the bill. It covers bread, tableware, and the privilege of sitting down. Not a tip. Legal and universal in most of Italy (banned in Lazio since 2006, but Rome restaurants charge "servizio" instead).
Getting the check: The waiter will NEVER bring the bill unsolicited — that would imply they want you to leave. You must ask: "Il conto, per favore." This is Italian restaurant culture's greatest gift: they will let you sit for 3 hours without pressure.
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