Every Italian bathroom has one. Most tourists don't know what to do with it. Here's the straightforward answer.
Plan your Italy trip โThe bidet is the low porcelain basin next to the toilet that looks like a second toilet or a very low sink. It's for washing yourself after using the toilet. Italians consider this essential hygiene โ like washing your hands, but for your other end. An Italian without a bidet is like an American without a shower: technically possible but culturally unthinkable.
After using the toilet, straddle the bidet facing the faucet (or facing away โ both work, personal preference). Turn on the water and adjust the temperature. Use your hand and water (with soap if you like) to clean. Dry with a dedicated small towel (usually hanging near the bidet, NOT the hand towel). That's it.
Most bidets have a standard faucet with hot and cold controls. Some have a vertical spray from the basin center โ turn it on gently first to check the pressure, otherwise you'll hit the ceiling. Modern ones may have a mixer tap. The water should be warm, not cold and not scalding.
Don't use it as a foot bath (it's not). Don't wash your clothes in it (tempting in a small apartment, but no). Don't use the towel next to it to dry your face โ that towel has a specific purpose. Don't skip it entirely and then wonder why Italians seem so fresh.
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